Changing Group windows

[Drunder40]

Oh ,I didn't realize the vertical one does not exist. Well I tried to copy the
Eq2ui_Mainhud_groupmembers.xml file from my wifes comuter as she has the vertical group window (Not the compact one though).

but when I copied it over and logged in, it was still the same horizontal group window I had prior so now I am really confused.

I know for a fact hers is the vertical one. Am I copying the wrong file?

Also I tried the auto updater way (Compact and Default) and no matter what I end up with the horizontal group window not the vertical one.

How can I get the default vertical one back without reinstalling the UI?