I got it! A 'REAL' Working FIX!!! It is an SoE bugged, I've tested, manipulated, e-mailed, tested some more and BLAMO!!! Fixed!
I had lost my older INI files so I couldn't 'make this work' and thought I was doomed because I didn't really think it was this... cause I thought I had tried it all, missed one thing though.
If you don't have an old 'working' character_uisettings.ini file, I'm attaching my specific 1280x1024 setup which was designed around Zonx's FetishClassic UI (Uploaded today) with the addition of Mook's 3-in-1 Small Hot Bar, Addition POI Icons for the Map and Tonyisl33t's Small Maintained and Spell Effects windows. You can manipulate the chat windows, move 'em around, it WILL save (hehe, hopefully), so you can use this INI and then re-arrange from there with any resolution.
Apparantly the bug is in how SoE is saving the 'new' INI files, which may be a randomized bug per 'account' or possibly for anyone using new saves. It is NOT a 'custom ui' specific error, it's a character_uisettings.ini save error on their end, sent to your end. I found this out by sending my INI to a friend, and only that, and poof, chat boxes went bygone. He sent me back his previous working one, and I went from there and vuala! Fixed!
I hope this works for everyone having this trouble, by gosh I know this drove me nuts for hours on end. Just be sure to change the 'SERVER' to your played server name and 'CHARNAME' to your character's name on the INI file, place into your Main EverQuest II directory (folder) and you're all set. Whoohaa!
Psst...
www.keepersoftwilight.com when you get a chance, I'm workin' hard on this site and don't mind constructive, or well, be mean to me criticism. Helps to drive me to make things better overall. If anyone plays on the Befallen server, I play often as Hinton Sureshot, my Ranger and I run a lot of events per week for my guild which anyone and everyone is welcome to join in on, like Hide 'n Seek, Treasure Hunts, Raids, etc... Oops, I'm rambling, go! Go logon and enjoy your chat boxes!!! :-)