Moderated Chat

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Not sure where to post this ...
Today i entered (for the first time) one of the CHAT Servers... ( surprised ony Only ONE chat room for english speaking),and to my DISMAY, the darn thing is MODERATED.. now pray tell, WHAT is the POINT to having a CHAT Room if they deny you the ability to SPEAK and ask for HELP....?
in my opinion this TOTALLY defeats the purpose of such a room ...