Thank you for your post. Game scaling workarounds are posted frequently on the official forums -- here are some examples:
https://forums.daybreakgames.com/eq2.../#post-6703825
https://forums.daybreakgames.com/eq2...you-too.606015
https://forums.daybreakgames.com/eq2...2#post-6697266
Unfortunately when the game is scaled down to make the standard UI appear larger, the 3D game world also gets scaled down along with it. Players with high-resolution systems and large monitors are understandably disinclined to play EverQuest II at lower quality.