SO, I've been hacking and slashing my way through the process of matching the target/implied to the player frame and noticed that something goes wonky with frame widths when you change the con.
With bars the exact same size (between implied and target), upon login the implied window is too short, i change cons and the frame becomes too long. Then if I change it back to the original con (so from 1 to 0 to 1 again) the frame and bars is the perfect size, aka the one I have set in the xml.
It's a sloppy change, I didn't know how to put a border around the bars like the player frame so I created a faux border by making the bar slightly smaller than the bar background and changed the color of the background to black. Here's a preview of the frames so far though - still not finished the implied target, but trying to figure out why the frame size is odd based on con.
http://img163.imageshack.us/img163/3681/eq2000340.jpg