I'll try to help you out any way I can here is a list of things I need to know.
- What exactly is EQ2 doing?
- What are you doing when it does it?
- Is there a common event happening when it does it? (You chatting, clicking on a window, ect)
- What type of connection are you one (dial-up, ISDN, DSL, Cable, Sat)
- What firewalls, anti-virus, spy-ware software are you using and is EQ2 on their exclude list?