If your looking to get into the web, learning php/mysql/asp/sql/java (for ajax)/html is what you'll want to do.
Programing sites I visit are...
http://www.sitepoint.com //### good forums lots of info
http://www.dbforums.com
http://www.programmingtalk.com //### kinda slow
http://www.google.com //### Alot of times I just search google and it comes up with some good stuff.