If you click on the World tab and click back do the custom POIs show up?
Your picture of the Commonlands map is showing a bug with the default icons that I outlined here:
http://forums.station.sony.com/eq2/p...opic_id=394524
This is an SOE bug and I don't think we can fix it. You can camp back to the same character if you want.
/camp Othesus