Hi,
Fetish uses his own style / framework, So realy you need to merge a few duplicate files that we have for the 2 to co-exist and work,
Firstly if you have more Fetish stuff than Laffs then it makes sense to edit his files to include my styles so to speak or vice versa..
I will work on the asumption that it is only Fetish tradeskills you wish to use..
1. Open up Laffs version of "eq2ui.xml"
2. On the 4th line down in that file paste these 2 lines
<include>_FetishStyles.xml</include>
<include>_FetishStyleSamples.xml</include>
3. Save the file
4. Delete the Fetish version of "eq2ui.xml" from his download folder
5. Then copy and paste all the other files from his download folder into the Laffs-Lite folder.
And that should be it
(Turns out after looking at the mod there was only 1 file to edit after all lol)